What I Learned In Church – 29th July, 2018

Prepare to Meet Christ – Truth Missionary Baptist Church

So today was another Sunday and as always it was a blessed time to be with other believers in Church to give glory to our God and to hear His timeless word preached by Pastor Ferguson Kcofie. The title of his sermon was ‘Prepare to Meet Christ’ and it was taken from Matthew 25:1-13 also known as the ‘Parable of the Ten Virgins’. Let us take a look at it below and then we shall consider the lessons that we took from this:

1 “Then the kingdom of heaven shall be likened to ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom. ² Now five of them were wise, and five were foolish. ³ Those who were foolish took their lamps and took no oil with them, ⁴ but the wise took oil in their vessels with their lamps. ⁵ But while the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept.

⁶ “And at midnight a cry was heard: ‘Behold, the bridegroom ^[a]is coming; go out to meet him!’ ⁷ Then all those virgins arose and trimmed their lamps. ⁸ And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ ⁹ But the wise answered, saying, ‘No, lest there should not be enough for us and you; but go rather to those who sell, and buy for yourselves.’ ¹⁰ And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the wedding; and the door was shut.

¹¹ “Afterward the other virgins came also, saying, ‘Lord, Lord, open to us!’ ¹² But he answered and said, ‘Assuredly, I say to you, I do not know you.’

¹³ “Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour ^[b]in which the Son of Man is coming.

 

Context

Before the key lessons, it would be helpful to understand the cultural context behind this parable as the original hearers would have understood clearly what Jesus was teaching. In those days, marriages were in 4 stages:

a. Betrothal – A short and simple ceremony in the bride’s home (think today’s engagement). However, this was a binding agreement in that culture showing the importance placed upon marriage.

b. Period of Preparation – Typically lasted 1-3 years and required the man to prepare a place where he will come and live with his bride.

c. Procession – A date was set when the groom would come from out of town and would be welcomed by selected bridesmaids (virgins) as we can see in our parable to take him to the bride.

d. Marriage – Vows were made and the marriage was finalized with the groom taking his bride to their new home.

Our parable therefore takes place between the second and the third stages of the marriage. Christ represents the Groom and the Virgins represent mankind and it is all about how one will enter the kingdom of heaven as verse 1 clearly outlines.

Lessons

1. There are 2 Classes of People (v 1-5)– We see 5 wise and 5 foolish virgins compared and contrasted in this parable. This is similar language from Jesus as He used earlier in Matt 7:24-27 when He talks about the wise and the foolish builders. This is exactly how it is in the real world. There are basically only 2 kinds of people. Wise or Foolish in the sight of God depending on their standing with God. Men may make much fuss about people of different races and abilities and personalities etc and all these are important in their own place but in the grand scheme of things, there are only 2.

Wise

• The ‘Wise’ were those who possessed spiritual life.
• They had a reverence for God. They knew to be alert and ensured they had oil.
• Realized the privilege they had to be selected and granted grace. Not everyone got to be a bridesmaid during this ceremony.

Foolish

• Hebrew word stands for ‘moron’ or one who is thoughtless and cannot reason.
• Many are like that today and are very careless with their souls. They live without regard to their eternal state.
• They assumed they would go to heaven based on the externals of life and had no inward reality of salvation (represented by the extra oil).

2. Time will soon end (v 6) – We notice the groom arrived at midnight. Basically, it was at an unannounced time. We do not know the day nor the hour that Christ will come. We also do not know the time of our own departure from this earth so we must be ready at all times. It is an act of grace that God has waited so long before Christ coming and we know it is so as many as will may come in.

However, the delay is also a test. True Christians will be proved through many trials and will endure to the end 1 Peter 1:6&7.

3. Grace can not be shared (v 7-9) – No one can share their spiritual life with another. That is why the wise virgins told the foolish ones to go and buy their own oil. Salvation is a personal thing. Your parent cannot believe for you, your spouse cannot believe for you and no man can confer it upon you during infant baptism or any other such religious ceremony. Every person must individually be born again by repenting and putting their faith in Christ.

4. The Door of Grace will be shut (v 10) – The time and space to repent will not go on forever. God has fixed a day in which He will judge the world in Christ Jesus. Never put off coming to Christ till tomorrow or till a more opportune time. That may never come for you. Remember the story of Noah’s Ark and the Flood. Eventually, the flood came and we are told that God Himself closed up the door of the ark and no one could enter in afterwards. Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your heart.

5. Foolish Virgins Disowned and Rejected (v 11 & 12) – Finally, the most fearful saying that any person could every imagine is Christ saying on that day that “I do not know you.” Can you imagine the terror of that statement when you swing out into eternity?  In Matt 7:21-23, Jesus says this again. On the last day, many will come to Him with all kinds of activities claimed to have been done for Him and He is going to tell them He never knew them. Please do not think this is talking about someone who was saved and lost His salvation (The Bible does not even teach that but that is for another day). He says He never knew them. Not, He knew them and then the relationship got broken along the way. HE NEVER KNEW THEM! How many people sit in churches today are making these very assumptions without having true life in them?

To conclude, let us all seek the Lord while He may be found. What is the priority in your life? What consumes your affections and desires? Can you in all honesty say Christ is the centrepiece of your life and not an accessory you call upon when you are in some need?

Let us prepare to meet Christ!